Breaking Up Is Hard to Do



"Breaking Up Is Hard to Do" is a song recorded by Neil Sedaka, and co-written by Sedaka and Howard Greenfield. Sedaka recorded this song twice, in 1962 and 1975, in two significantly different arrangements, and it is considered to be his signature song. Another song by the same name had previously been recorded by Jivin' Gene [Bourgeois] and The Jokers, in 1959.

Original version


Described by AllMusic as "two minutes and sixteen seconds of pure pop magic," "Breaking Up Is Hard to Do" hit number one on the Billboard Hot 100 on August 11, 1962 and peaked at number twelve on the Hot R&B Sides chart. The single was a solid hit all over the world, reaching number 7 in the UK, sometimes with the text translated into foreign languages. For example, the Italian version was called "Tu non lo sai" ("You Don't Know") and was recorded by Sedaka himself.

On this version, background vocals on the song are performed by the female group The Cookies.

The personnel on the original recording session included: Al Casamenti, Art Ryerson, and Charles Macy on guitar; Ernie Hayes on piano; George Duvivier on bass; Gary Chester on drums; Artie Kaplan on saxophone; George Devens and Phil Kraus on percussion; Seymour Barab and Morris Stonzek on cellos; and David Gulliet, Joseph H. Haber, Harry Kohon, David Sackson, and Louis Stone on violins.

Sedaka's 1975 version
Though it was originally an uptempo song, Sedaka re-recorded it as a ballad in 1975. The slower arrangement was originally debuted by Lenny Welch; it peaked at #34 on the US Billboard charts in January 1970. Sedaka's slow version peaked at #8 in February 1976 and went to number one on the Easy Listening chart. It was only the second time that an artist made the Billboard Top Ten with two different versions of the same song.

The Partridge Family version
Apart from Sedaka's own reworking of the song, by far the most successful cover of "Breaking Up Is Hard to Do" was done by the Partridge Family in 1972. While only a medium hit in North America, their version reached number 3 in both the UK and Australia.

Other versions
"Breaking Up Is Hard to Do" has been covered by numerous other artists over the years, including: • Paul Anka

• The Carpenters

• Dee Dee Sharp

• Nick Carter

• Gloria Estefan

• La Onda Vaselina

• The Four Seasons

• Eydie Gorme

• Lucy Hale

• Garrett Haley

• The Happenings, whose version charted at #67 on the Billboard Hot 100

• Tom Jones

• Killola

• Carole King

• Little Eva

• The Marbles

• Renee Olstead & Peter Cincotti

• Zoogz Rift

• Svenne & Lotta

• Lenny Welch, US number 34 in 1970

• Andy Williams

• Cartoons

• A duet between Sedaka and Norwegian singer Sissel Kyrkjebø

• Mak and the Dudes

• Damian McGinty of Celtic Thunder

• Clay Aiken recorded the song as a bonus track for his 2010 album,Tried and True.

• Shelley Fabares recorded the song for her 1962 album The Things We Did Last Summer

• Aimer

• The Overtones

• British rock duo The Marbles recorded the song and appears on their 1970 self-titled album

German version: Abschiednehmen ist so schwer
 * Anna-Lena Löfgren (1962; she was a Swedish singer, born 1944, died 2010)

French version: Moi je pense encore à toi
 * sung and adapted by Claude François (co-author of "My Way") the title means "I'm still thinking of you".
 * Sylvie Vartan under the same French title Moi je pense encore a toi (I'm still thinking about you)

Portuguese version: O Superstar
 * sung by new wave/comedy rock band João Penca e Seus Miquinhos Amestrados (1993)

Spanish version: Qué triste es el primer adiós
 * sung by La Onda Vaselina (1989).

Czech version: Zázemí
 * sung by Jitka Zelenková (1976).

Czech version: Nálada je výborná
 * sung by Linda Finková & Pavel Noha (1986).

Czech version: Nálada
 * sung by Iveta Bartošová (1996).